We think to save the moment in time, a memorial should be made for
Alex Orange in Charlotte, NC! whether it be a tree or a small statue,
We think the presence of a memorial would help awareness! Our school
hasn't yet decided what to do to acknowledge the 20th anniversary but
Ideas are starting to come up, like posters, hosting a dance, or
getting it in our local news paper if possible. ~ Kalynn Kowitz, Wilmot Union High, Wilmot WI
A tradtion since we started SAVE at Montbello HS is to put Purple and
Orange ribbons on all of the lockers at school. Other ideas we came up with in the club were to had out
Hot candies that say "don't let anger Heat u up" we also wanted to start a Anti-Violence Poetry Slam or even
have a SAVE 20th Anniversary potluck/banquet. ~ Candy Gonzales & Gerardo Ceballos, Montbello High School, Denver, CO
I would suggest all chapters participate in all the National SAVE activities and coordinate activities in their community.
North Chicago's SAVE Chapter will probably host a big community day and just have the community/people come out and celebrate
SAVE's 20th anniversary, raise awareness and just have fun!!! ~ Brehanna Jordan, North Chicago High School, IL
I suggest that SAVE chapters organize a school wide project that
allows everyone to get involved and learn more about the 20 years SAVE has
made a difference across the nation. ~ Casey Story, Garner High School, Garner, NC
There are lots of fun activities that all chapter should participate in. But I would encourage all chapter to
participate in the Rock-A-Thon and National Youth Violence Prevention Week. For the Rock-A-Thon my chapter set
up a tent at a football game and everyone rock the whole game, and other people who wanted to rock too get free pizza.
Also on National Youth Violence Prrevention Week It was the last week before spring break and it was really hot; so we
sold freeze pop and told everyone to chill out!! ~ Jonai Lloyd, Laney High School Wilmington, NC
A main goal for the 20th anniversary should definitely be to have fun
and be informative. Something that my club wants to do is to hand out
candy with messages. For example A lollipop - "Don't be a dumb dumb,
stay nonviolent" or Smarties - "Be a smartie, join SAVE!" You might
also want to have some fun with your club; play games and get to know
each other. ~ Cassady Tetsworth, Northwest High School, Greensboro, NC
I would say to watch the SAVE video and have your chapter do something that would
be in Alex's memory. Also after viewing the movie ask some of the students to write
a letter just saying how it has made a difference. ~ Nigel Cox, Farmville Central High School, Farmville, NC
How is your chapter making an effort to get students to speak up about
their knowledge of destructive activities taking place or ones that are
planned to take place prior to a terrible event occurring?
RESPONSES:
My chapter meets every other Saturday for 2 hours. We open up with a brief discussion on violence in our community. Most of our
discussions relates to negative activities that occur at our school. We plan to start a recruitment campaign to invite our peers to
attend our meetings. ~ Brehanna Jordan, North Chicago High School, IL
Our school hasn't had that big of a problem this year. Which is very good news. If someone in our group knew about something
violent that was going to happen, the person would hopefully confront them and try to find a more peaceful solution to the matter.
I say hopefully because not everything works as we would like them to. If that doesn't work then I would get the principal, or some
other authority involved to make sure that no one gets hurt. ~ Wesley Rossdeutscher School, Chandler High School, OK
My chapter promotes the different hotlines that you can call when you know a destructive activity is going to occur. Then if a student does
find something out, they know what to do so a terrible event does not happen. ~ Casey Story, Garner High School, Garner, NC
We encourage students to inform us about destructive decisions that
are going on by offereing an anonymous box. That means that a person
can write down the event and slip it into the box without anyone
knowing who wrote it. ~ Amber Bivins, Chapel Hill High School, NC
At Montbello High School we have Crime Stoppers and we give a rewards to those students who tell us if there is a fight that's going
to happen or if someone tagged up the school or anything of that matter. We have a Crime Stoppers locker where students can put a
note if something is going to happen and they can make it anonymously or if they wish to call or tell oue SAVE advisor. We have
stopped fights, found out who tagged the bathrooms because of Crime Stoppers. ~ Christian Gonzalez, Montbello High School, Denver, CO
If a student is interested in starting a
SAVE chapter at their school, what three things would you tell them about SAVE?
RESPONSES:
Three things that I would say about someone starting a save chapter:
1. Students have the opportunity to get involved in a positive activity and stay out of trouble.
2. It's a good organization for youth to be a VOICE in the community to discuss their concerns.
3. The group is fun and we get to engage in team building activities and leadership skills.
~ Brehanna Jordan, North Chicago High School, IL
If a student was interested in starting a SAVE chapter at their school I'd start off by telling them about SAVE's purpose
("decrease the potential for violence in schools and communities by promoting meaningful student involvement, education and
service opportunities in efforts to provide safer environments for learning"), a little of the history of the origin of SAVE
(shooting of Alex Orange) and how useful having a SAVE chapter at their school could be. ~ Katie Weart, Central Cabarrus High School, Concord, NC
I would recommend to any student looking to start a chapter to first off find a small group of friends who are willing to commit the time
and brain power needed to get the message out! Other things I would also recommend would be planning school-wide activities and fund
raisers so that you have money to make more ideas available to you! ~ Kalynn Kowitz, Wilmot Union High School, Wilmot, Wisconsin
I would tell them that SAVE is one of the best and most helpful school orginazations created. In our school it
has decreased the amount of violence by over half. If set up right it can effect the whole school and even the community. The lives of people can
be effected by the how much your SAVE Chapter reaches out. People could change for life from the testimonials and lesson plans used. I wish you all
luck with your SAVE Chapters! ~ Wesley Rossdeutscher School, Chandler High School, OK
If a student is interested in starting a new SAVE chapter, I would
tell them that right away they will be helping to improve their school. I would also tell them to try to get all their friends to join
and that being a member of SAVE is a blast! ~ Amber Bivins, Chapel Hill High School, NC
If a student is interested in joining SAVE, I would tell them that SAVE is a student-run organization, it for students by students and that
we are the ones who make the decisions about what happens. SAVE lets you speak out about what goes on in your school and stop everything that
goes on in our school and communities regarding violence. I would also say that its another way to be a leader. SAVE gives you that leadership
that will help you in the future. -Christian Gonzalez Montbello High School, Denver, CO
If a student is interested in starting a SAVE chapter, the three things I would tell them about SAVE is that it is important
be to be organized, creative, and dedicated. SAVE is something to be passionate about, but it takes a lot of
hard work. But with planning and time, you can really make a difference in your community. - Casey Story, Garner High School, Garner, NC
The July Question of the Month comes from a SAVE student: I will be President of my SAVE chapter and was wondering how we can recruit more members?
RESPONSES:
We can recruit more members by explaining what the program is about and letting them know how violence is effecting
our community and the world, and also tell them how fun it is to be a member and tell them all the fun activities that we do. ~ Brehanna Jordan, North Chicago High School, IL
I am in a similar situation! I am starting a chapter at my high school! What I am doing is talking to my friends to try
and get them to join! Another thing that I find helps is placing eye-catching posters around school! Make sure to make
them as colorful and busy as possible but still to the point! A table at the freshman orientation will also help to get
freshman interested and hopefully join your chapter! ~ Kalynn Kowitz, Wilmot Union High School, Wilmot, Wisconsin
This fall we will place announcements on our school news and in the school newspaper. ~ Brett Powers, Medicine Lake High School, WA
Here are a few ideas my group has thrown around: Have current members try and bring friends or siblings if they aren't already members;
Have members talk to people personally to try and recruit them. It makes the people you're trying to recruit feel that they are being thought of, and they feel like they are important and they make a difference and that you care about them as a person.
~ Cayla Folsom, Parkview High School, Georgia
You can recruit more members by getting the word out to everybody about SAVE. A good
start would be having an assembly and getting a bunch of people to come and check it out. We had freshman come and talk to us about the
different programs and we told them about SAVE , so they got involved. ~ Christian Gonzalez, Montbello High School, Denver, CO
I think that you could recruit more members for your chapter by creating posters and putting them up on the walls around the school in places where
your peers are sure to go. (Bathrooms, Cafeteria, Gymasium, etc.) Also, another way of getting the word out would be to put in a few words on
the announcements describing SAVE's message and its purpose in your school. Keep it brief and to the point, and ask in an energetic way "who wants to
join in on the fun?" And, at your schools next pep-rally, get the SAVE members involved and out
there, your peers will definately be aware of the club and may be inclined to join. But, you hav to keep it active and always, always, ALWAYS have something
going on. Make sure that everyone knows, and ask the members you do have to invite friends. Hope this helps and good luck with your efforts!! ~ Katie Weart, Central Cabarrus High School, Concord, NC
A good way to recuit members is first to make your SAVE club better known. You can put posters up around your school letting students know what SAVE is, make announcments saying recent projects your SAVE club
has done, or organize a peace rally to get the students excited about non-violence. You can also personally invite people to join. You can
ask friends to come to a meeting, or make invitations you can hand out to anyone and everyone to invite to an upcoming meeting. Good luck and I hope you can recruit more members by doing these things! ~ Casey Story, Garner Magnet High School, Garner, NC
People are mostly good... After saying that you can talk to people about SAVE but it should be in a way that they can relate. Each person can relate to violence because it is a part of everyone's lives. Youth from churches would most likely join because it would make a difference and that is what they believe in...But every person is affected and you need to find a way to relate to each person individually.
~ Wesley Rossdeutscher School, Chandler High School, OK
A good start would be to let everyone know that SAVE is a serious club and is to be trusted. You can do this by putting up flyers or airing
annoncements that show what activities SAVE has done in the past and the impact that it has already made. For example, tell everyone about
the successful national rock-a-thon. Once people see that SAVE actually gets things done, they will definitly want to be apart of it.
Also, one of the best ways to get the word out is word-of-mouth. Get your friends involved and start a chain reaction! ~ Amber Bivins, Chapel Hill High School, NC
How is your SAVE chapter addressing substance abuse issues in your school and community? How is your chapter helping students to remain drug and alcohol free in regards to Prom Activities and End of Year activities?
RESPONSES:
Farmville Central High School conducted prom promise. It is where each student that is going to prom signs a pledge
that states that they will not do drugs or drink alchol on the night of prom. Then one day during the week of prom we have a drunk driving
simulation were we put on drunk driving goggles and drive a golf cart though a course to simulate drinking and driving. We also had a
wrecked car brought in to have a visual rememberance of what drinking and driving could do. ~ Michael Register, Farmville Central High School
I am sad to report that today I learned of a student's death over
the weekend who had OD on drugs (ecstasy and cocaine) and had suffered
from alcohol poisioning. She had partied too much on Cinco de Mayo
and died during the night, her younger brother found her the next
morning. I am a firm believer in keeping kids aware of the effects of
substance abuse. Poway's SAVE chapter students are advocates for drug
free youth and we bring experts on campus to talk about the effects
and extremes of alchol and drugs. My hope is that all students learn
how to have fun in other ways and realize that these substances harm
your body. Students always say "I'll try it once," but that one time
becomes an addiction that is hard to pull away from. Please ask for
help from friends, staff, or famiy if you are having issues with drugs
and alcohol. You can get help, there is no reason why anymore students
should die from substance abuse. ~ Heather Hernandez, Poway High School, San Diego, CA
How is your SAVE chapter addressing relationship violence in your school and community?
RESPONSES:
In my school I have worked it out with my school staff to have an announcement made about addressing relationship violence and other
forms of violence in my school and community ~ Rafael Grillo, Paisley I.B. Magnet School High School, NC
My SAVE chapter has addressed relationship violence with our student
body by having a speaker come in and talk on the topic with teens. She shared with us not only physical abuse, but
also mental and emotional. Methods were brought up such as date rape, and how violence starts off small.
The speaker was great and the students really enjoyed her. ~ Heather Hernandez, Poway High School, San Diego, CA
What suggestions do you have for students who encounter bullies?
RESPONSES:
First off, no matter what they say, YOU ARE AN AMAZING PERSON. That's all there is to it.
If someone can't see you for who you are, well tough for them. I'm in 8th grade and have
been teased about something or other for quite a bit of my school life. In elementary school
and 5th grade, it was because I read a lot and was generally a smart kid (I really don't mean
to brag). When I got to 6th grade, I started getting into Japanese manga and anime, and started
learning how to speak Japanese. I was only teased more because I enjoyed something that wasn't
"cool", and subsequently, I became even more of a "weird girl" than before.
I have had a group of very supportive friends since 5th grade who likes the same things I do
and we get along really well. However, I was on a different team than all of them (our school
divides each grade into teams; 6-2, 8-1, ect) and I was bullied both for my anime obsession and
for not having very many friends. It got to the point where I dreaded the classes the housed my
tormenters, and by the time I got to 7th grade I was ready to snap at the first person to take a
shot at me. I became rather sharp-tongued towards anyone that had ever talked about me either to
my face or behind my back, and I continued along my merry way with reading manga and learning
Japanese. When I started talking to myself in Japanese to try and calm down, they would mimick me
horribly and "speak" right back to me. I started drawing, which gave a small outlet to get at least a bit of my anger out, and I re gained a bit of politness towards the "popular" set.
One day when I was in the lecture hall, there was a poem written on my desk. I read it, and it felt like this person knew exactly what was happening to me. When I finished, I felt like crying. Eventually, I found out who wrote it, and now I can talk to my "onii-chan" (big brother) when I have a bad day. I also got into writing and listening to music, which has helped me feel so much better. One of My Chemical Romance's music videos actually showed me how to get here (thanks so much you guys!)
So now, I'm in 8th grade. Everyone still takes a jab at my hobbies, but I'm learning how to ignore them- turn up the music in your head. School will never be easy for me, or anyone who gets bullied. But the people who do the bullying hurt only themselves. Those of us who get bullied grow up to be better people than them, because we know what to feels like to be alone. ~Alli R, MA
As a victim of bullying, I can relate to Georgia Economou's experience. I began being a victim of bullying in Mexico in the first grade. I was somewhat sensitive back then, so kids began making jokes
about me. They were just doing what friends would do, but since I had never experienced this, I took what they said seriously and got upset. The kids obviously found this funny, since they stepped up the jokes
to actual bullying. They always made dry jokes about me and did stupid things in class like start rumors about me and throw things at me. Anything negative revolved around me. I tried to talk to the
teachers, but they didn't do much, although they really couldn't considering the amount of peers involved. Things really started getting bad in the second and third grade when
they actually started physically harrasing me. One time while I was at a party, a group of kids ganged up on me, threw me on the ground, and pushed me back down every time I tried to get up for about half an
hour. Another time in a party, some kids found it funny to actually try and drown me, and if it wasnt for me jabbing my elbow into the kid
holding my head down, I probably would have passed out. Some things that I learned along the way that helped me survive elementary school were always staying away from the problem kids. At first I tried to confront them, but this usually ended with painful
blows to me. Then I just stayed away from everyone who had a problem with me. Another strategy that really helps is just saying Stop and walk away. It is a lot more useful than people sometimes make it out
to be.
I eventually left Mexico, and moved to Kentucky. There I had some minor problems, but I was able to deal with them. What really helped
me was just ignoring the sour jokes some kids made, and taking it in light. I didn't let the comments get to me. Having a group of trusted friends was really helpful as well. Even throughout middle
school and high school in North Carolina, this helped me greatly. No matter what problems you were having, you could always count on your
group of close friends to back you up. This really helps with one's self-esteem as well.
Also, in North Carolina during the seventh, I was not so much bullied as set aside by my peers, for being different. What helped me greatly was having a trusted adult to go to and be able to talk problems out
with. The trusted adult that helped me throughout my integration into North Carolina was my counselor, Ms. Foster. Some of my other teachers
helped me as well.
Basically, as long as you don't let things get to you, stay away from those who bully or bother you, have a group of people you can rely
upon, and keep your beliefs solid, then you can deal with almost any obstacle people may throw at you. ~ Rafael Grillo, Paisley I.B. Magnet School High School, NC
My suggestion would be to try and use words, also tell an adult about the bully so someone else knows and can give you advice.
Never result to fighting when it comes to a bully. ~ Heather Hernandez, Poway High School, San Diego, CA
Some suggestions that I have for a student that encounter bullies: 1) If you encounter a bully, work with the bullies to see if you
can find some common ground and keep yourself from getting hurt. 2) Sometimes it is best to give the bully what they are asking for
and then go and tell an adult or someone that can
possibly help you. ~ Michael Register, Farmville Central High School, Farmville, NC
People are always saying that you should forget the past and move on to the future, easily said than done. The day that I was
graduating from high school was a beautiful, sunny day. Most of the kids were thinking parties, freedom, college. Only one
thought was going through my mind, 7 years of pain and humiliation are finally over.
For me bullying came in two forms, physical and mental. The first time a boy hit me, was in the 7th grade. We were standing
in the lunch line and he punched me square in the jaw. I never did anything about it. Never reported it, never cried.
Just stood there and took it. Thus it all began.
He was a popular boy and part of a popular group. Him and his best buddy became my biggest tormentors. Verbally and physically.
You name it, I got it. Even though I never told anyone about it, the teachers knew about the abuse, some witnessed it. However, no
amount of scolding, or punishment stopped these boys. I remember an incident vividly. We were in gym class and one of the boys
began punching me and pushing me. His buddy, my nemesis, continued punching me as well. I fell down on the gym floor crying, the
only time I ever did that. Well, when my 7th grade teacher found out about it, she took the side of the boy, who said I had started
it. I was punished for being the victim. So, I was in a no win situation. I never told my parents about what was happening. I was
raised in a Greek family and my parents were not supportive of me. If I told them what was happening, they only would have said it
was my fault.
When I graduated from grammar school and went on to high school, it began all over again. The funny thing is, it was never the
girl's who hit me, it was always the boys. It seems that every time one bully stepped aside, there was another one who stepped in.
One time a boy was making nasty comments about my Mother. I snapped, and pushed him. He responded by grabbing me by my hair and
throwing me up against a wall. Of course, the whole school knew about this. I immediately was labeled again. I had no friends of
course. Who would want to be friends with someone like me? Unfortunately, I was not the brightest student. I admit it. You would
never know it if you saw me now. So, I was always placed in a lower group, and this meant being in classes with losers who tended to
be bigger bullyies. During my sophomore year, a new group of tormentors came after me. The ringleader being a boy who not only beat
me physically, but he made it very clear that if I told anyone, I would regret it further. He once kicked my locker door closed on my
hand. I sometimes would walk down the hallway in school and get smacked in the head. When other kids witnessed this, they would
always ask me why I took it. Why didn't I fight back? How could I? I was one girl amongst a group of at least 5 boys!!!
It may seem that it could not get any worse. It did though. It continued all the way through my high school years. Funny that some
people think that high school can be the best years of your life. In my case, it was always a matter of survival.
When graduation time finally came around, I began to feel that I would be free soon. However, all of my fears followed me wherever
I went. I was scared that I would run into the boys who tormented me in college. I could get close to no one. The walls were solidly built around me and could not be brought down. Upon entering college though, things did begin to change. The kids were nicer. No one knew about my past, I began to slowly make some friends. The fear remained buried though. There was always a shiver of fear that went up my spine when I passed a group of boys. My self-esteem had taken a beating as well. I could not accept compliments from people. I always thought very little of myself, and this greatly affected any relationship that I had.
Now that I think back to this, I know it may have been prevented. There just didn't seem to be any options open to me at the time.
I just couldn't tell my parents this. It would not have done any good. Teachers and school administrators would not have done any
good either. However, in this day and age things are different. Programs are being set up regarding bullying, guidance counselors
have made it more possible to have kids come to them and talk to them about what's happening. SAVE is invaluable to kids who are
suffering through this. I encourage, no, I beg kids who are going through this to take advantage of what's offered to you via these
programs. Please don't think that by telling it could get worse, it can't get any worse, please remember that. By telling, you may
be saving another kids life.
By the grace of God, I did come out of this whole. I finished school, have a wonderful job and good friends. I'd like to say
that I am successful. I still think about the incidents and sometimes even cry about them. However, I think that maybe God allowed
these things to happen to me to help me become a more compassionate person. To think of other people's feelings first. My
self-esteem is still low, and it's a struggle every day, but I think that I will be o.k. And I want others to know that they will
be o.k. as well.~ Georgia Economou, NJ
March 31 - April 4 is National Youth Violence Prevention Week, how
will your SAVE chapter celebrate this week?
RESPONSES:
SAVE Fort Wayne is encouraging participating schools to attend Round Table
conferences on the campaign's "Unite In Action Day" scheduled for Friday, March 27th at the Old Fort YMCA. The
challenges highlighted for 2009 were proposed by the campaign's Youth Advisory Board and will
include: Promoting Respect and Tolerance, Managing Anger, Resolving Conflicts Peacefully, Supporting Safety and Uniting in Action.
The Eagle's Nest Youth Center SAVE chapter will be focusing
on Bullying, Intimidation and Relationships this week. They will be having a basketball game on
March 25 where youth will develop character through competition. On March 26 they will join other area youth at Old Fort
YMCA for a panel discussion on violence and Sunday the week will culminate with a teen
dance. The challenges highlighted for 2009 were proposed by the campaign's Youth Advisory Board and will include:
Promoting Respect and Tolerance, Managing Anger, Resolving Conflicts Peacefully, Supporting Safety and Uniting in Action.
Eastern Greene will culminate a week of activities with a SAVE
Rock-a-thon fundraiser on April 3-4, 2009.
Townhall II will display 1100 pinwheels each representing one abused child in Portage County
from April 21 - 23, 2009 and a team for Bowl Against Abuse (sponsored by the Children's Advocacy Center in Ravenna, OH)
will be created for an event on April 25, 2009.
For Youth Violence Prevention Week, my club will put up posters of Violence Prevention. We are also having our annual Grim Reaper Day.
Every member in our club will wear a black shirt with a violence sttastic. Each member will represent a victim to violence.
It makes an impact on our school because students can not only hear the statistic, but also see it.
~ Cassady Tetsworth, Northwest High School, Greensboro, NC
National Youth Violence Prevention Week falls on our Spring Break so we decided to do it the week of April 20th.
We will be doing Purple Ribbon Day to remember our fallen Warriors and promote peace. We will hang our SAVE flag and
Violence Statistics posters in the halls. Each SAVE member will be going to the 5th hour mentoring classes and having
discussions around violence prevention and what students in MHS can do. Finally, we will be handing out Sour
Punch Straws with messages attached, "Don't punch, have a Sour Punch" and "Be sweet, not Sour".
~ Kris Bethscheider, Montbello High School, Denver, CO
On March 23, we will host a Staff vs. Student basketball game with a $3 admission. On March 24, we will participate
in the Hats Off to Violence Day where staff and students can pay $1 for wear a hat. All participants will receive a
SAVE sticker to place on the hat. Wednesday, March 25 is West Charlotte Purple and Orange Day. Students and staff
are encouraged to wear purple and orange. There will be a prize for the most creative outfit. At 7:00pm there will
be a Candelight Vigil in the Circle in the Front of the School. March 26 is the SAVE Walk Against Violence where
staff, students, clubs and the community will be invited to walk with us. On Friday March 27 we are having the SAVE
Dance 3-6 Student/Staff Dance Contest, Best Dressed and Rip the Runaway Contest.
~ Tammy Broadaway, West Charlotte Senior High School, Charlotte, NC
Well, my school has decided to participate in the Relay for Life. Some may ask what this may have to do with National Youth
Violence Prevention Week...I feel like we are walking the violence out not just with the school but also in the community. We will
be sharing information about SAVE with fellow walkers and the community. It will be a great way to get our information out and give back to the community at the same
time. ~ Nigel Cox, Farmville Central High School, Greenville, SC
For National Youth Violence Prevention Week we are doing something for each day. Monday we are building a wall of intolerance. On Tuesday, we are putting
ribbons on every fourth seat in the cafe - because 1 of 4 people are victims of violence. Wednesday, we're
doing mix-it-up day. Thursday we're having a guest speaker. Friday, we're putting up the SAVE flag and reading
off names of people who have died as a result of violence. ~ Jonai Lloyd, Laney High School, Wilmington, NC
My chapter plans to do an assembly and do a couple of skits pertaining to violence and why you shouldn't do it and put up posters all over the school.
~ Brehanna Jordan, North Chicago High School, Chicago, IL
My chapter hasn't finalized plans yet for National Youth Violence Prevention Week, but I think a good idea is to
talk about a different type of violence in schools (like bullying, guns, etc.) each day of the week and ways to prevent it.
~ Casey Story, Garner Magnet High School, Garner, NC
2008 RESPONSES:
My chapter hasn't really talked to much about Prevention Week, but I think its a wonderful idea to post
posters and flyers or just to go around your school and talk to the youth. But before the week comes we will definitely have our plans together! ~ Brehanna Jordan, North Chicago High School, IL
Actvities planned at Moore Intermediate School in Florence, South Carolina can be viewed here.
Our SAVE Club Members will present Bullying skits during school wide assemblies.
Students in every grade level will have an opportunity to attend the assemblies. Activities leading up to the
assemblies include sharing "Bully Blockers" on the school's morning television show, SAVE Club Members leading
class meetings about Bullying, and administering a school wide Bullying survey to students. Students really
enjoyed the Bully Blockers examples, and often approach me in the hallways to let me know what Bully Blockers
they've used. ~ Diane Allen, Fuguitt Elementary, Largo, Florida
The Wilmot chapter is planning on placing posters around the school with facts about violence to raise awareness and prompt students
to join the fight againgst violence! ~ Kalynn Kowitz, Wilmot Union High School, Wilmot WI
My chapter has not yet discussed how to celebrate National Youth Violence Prevention Week, but I think it is a
good idea to celebrate each day with a different theme of SAVE. You can use the week to
remind everyone why it is important to prevent violence in your school. ~ Casey Story, Garner High School, Garner, NC
2007 RESPONSES:
Our SAVE Chapter had discussed going to another local school, either elementary of middle and giving a lesson about SAVE 's message. I think
there are so many ways to participate in National Youth Violence Prevention Week either by volunteering, helping a friend, or just
being there for someone in need. ~ Heather Hernandez, Poway High School, Poway, CA
For National Youth Violence Prevention Week, my SAVE chapter and I will be trying to recruit more members into our chapter, and possibly
putting up posters. ~ Rafael Grillo, Paisley I.B. Magnet School High School, NC
What activities will your SAVE Chapter be conducting over the summer?
RESPONSES:
Over the summer our club does not get together. We only do activities in the school. Eventually we would like to work
at a local summer camp where children of domestic violence go to get away from problems. Its a safe area for them have
fun and be kids. The camp is called Camp Hope. Our club has visited it last summer and hope to soon spend our vacations
there as counselors. ~ Heather Hernandez, Poway High School, San Diego, CA
Our SAVE Chapter likes to take part in what we call "Ox Cart Days" each summer. We will be forming a team for the bed
races and constructing a float for the parade. Our main goal in taking part of "Ox Cart Days" is getting our name out
there. It's a great way for the community to hear about us, as well as a great way to get interest for
potential members. ~ Taushia Brooks, Crookston High School, Crookston, MN
Our chapter over the summer is going to be working on next school year. We are going to be planning the up comming activities and anwork on the rule and regulations of the club. Also we are going to work on getting our SAVE chapter more out in the community and more
well known in the school. ~ Michael Register, Farmville Central High School, Farmville, NC
How has your SAVE chapter connected students in a meaningful way to your school and/or community?
Our SAVE chapter sponsored Mix-It-Up Lunch on November 15. Teachers and
students participated. A Bingo Ice Breaker sheet was
placed on each table. We also had nametags for every student to complete.
Four teachers used this activity to assign extra credit for students who
participated. ~ Ami Parker, Highland School of Technology, Gastonia, NC
Something new we tried this year was part of Domestic violence Awareness
Month, October. Our group created posters with the grim statistics of
domestic violence right here in our own community. We had members holding
them at every stoplight, and we all received a lot of feedback from the
community. Many motorists slowed down to read the signs, and gave a lot of
honks in approval of our standing up against> violence. The students felt
like they were really listened to and taken seriously by the public, and
they were eager to go out and do other projects in the community.
~ Taushia Brooks, Crookston High School, Crookston, MN
Konnoak is expressing ways of caring by serving pumpkin and apple pies to the homeless on Thanksgiving Day!!!! They are also helping
with Operation Christmas Shoe box through the Billy Graham Ministry and will be attending church together as a group this Sunday
to dedicate the shoeboxes!!!! - Denise McCoy, Konnoak Elementary School, Winston-Salem, NC
We hold an annual community clean up, host different events at the school, and not only do we participate in the purple ribbon days,
but we do this on the anniversaries of students that have died at our school. ~ Amber Virtue, Montbello High School, Denver, CO
My SAVE chapter has spread the word around school about SAVE to students
that did not know what it was about. We have also connected to the community by visiting local businesses to raise awareness and seek donations. ~ Michael Register, Farmville Central High School, Farmville, NC
We have gotten several freshmen involved with our club as well as the returning upper classmen. With a grand total membership of 20 members our club is steadily progressing. ~ Channing Shor, Middle Creek High School, Apex, NC
Our SAVE Club has connected students in the school and community by coming up with a new plan to do service projects once a month for our community. This month we are going to go down to a shelter in downtown San Diego where we will feed the homeless Thanksgiving dinner,
a few days after Thanksgiving. We have connected students to our school by hosting a tailgate kick off event where all the students could come to a safe place to have fun and eat. It got kids school spirit up and informed them about SAVE. ~ Heather Hernandez, Poway High School, San Diego, CA
What is your best back to school safety tip? How is your SAVE chapter assisting
in Back to School Safety efforts?
RESPONSES:
My best back to school safety tip is for students to meet new and positive people
by joining clubs in your school. This way if your normal friends are doing something
you don't agree with you can hang out with another group of friends. S.A.V.E at my
school helps out with the back to school safety efforts by helping with freshman
orientation. Members of save and other students that would like to help are assigned
a group of freshmen to help throughout the school year. They help them get around
the school, with tutoring, and bringing them to club events and other activities
such as football games and etc. ~ Carl Miles Jr., E. A. Laney High School, Wilmington, NC
The best back to school safety tip is: stay positive, keep yourself around positive
people because this will help you stay out of trouble and make an successful path
in life. ~ Nigel Cox, Farmville Central High School, Greenville, SC
Our best back to school safety tip for parents would be to make sure your child is
getting to school safe, whether it's walking (taking the safest route), taking a bus
(knowing the rules), taking their bike (knowing the laws) or you personally driving
them there (make sure they wear their seatbelt). For students, make sure you know
what environment your in. Learn about the people around you and who to avoid. Join
a club, that'll get you more involved and you'll make new friends!!
Our SAVE chapter is assisting in Back to School Safety Efforts by having adopt a
freshman, so the new sudents can get to know the school better. And we will also
be encouraging students to join SAVE in order to get them involved in school and
to join a positive program. ~ Dinh Doan & Candy Gonzalez, Montbello High School,
Denver, Co.
As school starts back my chapter is trying to get the word out about
SAVE. My best back to school safety tip would be to let students know
now that no matter what happens throughout the year, it's okay to
tell. Your SAVE chapter can communicate this. ~ Casey Story, Garner High School, Garner, NC
Always be safe going to and from school! Be sure you have a ride to
scool and know that you can trust the person or people with whom you
are riding. Also pay very close attention at school bus stops where
traffic might be heavy. Once school starts my chapter will be giving
handouts during the first week of school discussing back to school
safety. ~ J.P. Wilson, Ira High School, Ira, TX
Responses from the academic year 2009 to 2010 :
My best back to school safety tip is to drive safely. Parking lots are going to be filled with
vehicles and people running around. We must stay aware of our surroundings and watch closely to
everything happening around us. ~ Hannah Froh, Chandler High School, Chandler, OK.
I would like to accomplish not getting into fights and to stay out of trouble. I am kinda of a gothic person that really nets to get
better. That is what I want to acomplish. ~ Brittany Yoey, Hayes Middle school, W.V.
This year I would like my SAVE Chapter to get out in the community and get the word out about
SAVE. I would like for the community to be aware of SAVE and know what SAVE
is for and about. ~ Michael Register, Farmville Middle School, Farmville, NC
I would really like for my SAVE chapter to do more cummunity service, we have done a lot but I believe that the community
can use a lot more help. ~ Darius Bush, Highland School of Technology, Gastonia, NC
I would like to see our chapter to gain some underclassmen so that I know the club will continue to grow in the future.
Also to have planned activities similar to last year on National SAVE Day, and also during violence prevention week have
a few activities.
~ Channing Shor, Middle Creek High School, Apex, NC
I would like to see my SAVE Chapter grow with student envolement. We have a lot of members, but I would like to see
our club branch out to all the different groups on campus. Also, I would love to see SAVE Week be a great success and get publiczed more.
~ Heather Hernandez, Poway High School, San Diego, CA
This year, the Montbello SAVE chapter has
many things we are trying to accomplish. Our main goal is to somehow get
difibulators in our school, by either writing grants, or raising money.
Along side that project, we have many other activities that we are trying
to do, such as our annual community clean up, particpating in
National SAVE Day, Peace Week, violence
Prevention Week, and mini activities around the school. All in all, it looks
like it is going to be a good year for the Montbello SAVE
chapter.
~ Amber Virtue, Montbello High School, Denver, Colorado
How has your SAVE Chapter addressed the needs
of students with disabilities in your school or community?
RESPONSES:
We make every effort invite all students in our activities through our school's daily announcements, posters, flyers and
often include personal one on one invitations. As sponsor, I have gone to speak directly with our intellectually and vision impaired classes about our various activities,
student friendly resources and community agencies. During some of our pledge drives we have taken the materials directly to
the classroom. We have several special needs students in our club. We have one special needs student who has been a member of our club for 3 years. She has taken part in presentations and has
lead discussions, in her classroom, related events, activities, and shared helpful information and is a great advocate for our
club and what it stands for. She participated in our car wash, was very instrumental during Red Ribbon Week in handing our
ribbons and lollipops and she has two assisted with our middle school presentation on Bullies. This year one of the special need classes has occasionally acted as couriers distributing necessary announcements and
ertinent information to the faculty and student body. They have done an excellent job and have agreed next year to be
our official SAVE & SADD club courier! They will address and deliver notices to faculty and club members and the general
student body about upcoming events. We are excited about this proposed cooperative endeavor.
~ Margaret Shortreed, Parkview High School, Lilburn GA
Do you feel that the incidents of violence in schools and communities
increase as spring approaches and, if so, how does your school or agency address this potential for an increase?
RESPONSES:
I think that violence does increase because everyone is eager for summer break and the feeling of "not caring"
sets in. We don't really have a set plan to help reduce this in our school because although the not caring feeling
sets in there isn't and increased number of fights in our school particularly. ~ Channing Shor, Middle Creek High School, Apex, NC
Here in San Diego, and at my high school, in my opinion, violence does not increase as spring approches.
If anything everyone is in a better mood because of the beautiful sunny weather
outside. At my school, springtime is a time for the beach and friends at my school. ~ Heather Hernandez, Poway High School, San Diego, CA
How does your chapter raise funds or gain sponsorship?
RESPONSES:
Before I share this with you, I wanted to let everyone know that our group
did an AMAZING job fundraising last year-$5,000 last year alone!! But it
definitely wasn't easy, it being only our second year in the school, and
only 20 members!! We were very creative about everything. We started off
the year by selling Krispy Kreme donuts by the dozen, made bead bracelets
that spell out 'SAVE', we held a concert with bands from all over Minnesota
called 'Rock against> violence'. We also sold coupon booklets, received a
mini grant from the National SAVE Organization, and we were able to get
petty cash from our school's Board of Education. We also held a '$.50 To
Wear A Hat Day' on a Friday (with the principal's permission) were the
students could pay $.50 to get a ribbon around their wrist that excused
them to wear a hat all day-they liked that idea! ~ Taushia Brooks, Crookston High School, MN
Our club is the recipient of a $1000 award for a
Seatbelt and GDL Project checkpoint we conducted at a football game on
October 22, 2004. Our goal was threefold: to raise the awareness levels of
the students, parents, and visitors on state laws on seatbelt safety,
booster seats for infants and toddlers, and the Graduated Driver License
program. The monies will be awarded in May to deserving seniors who have
worked in our SAVE Chapter and to pay for registration
to the SAVE Summit. ~ Joan Walden, Ragsdale High School,
Greensboro, NC